• Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    One way to understand them better is to occasionally talk. Cuz like, guys and girls are actually incredibly similar. A couple of conversations a day, with the occasional really good conversation, can go a very long way towards understanding each other. Everything you don’t talk about is one more thing you won’t understand.

    • Who knew?@sh.itjust.works
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      1 month ago

      Its true. I wondered why I didn’t feel like girls were any different from me and why I had a hard time understanding both girls and boys, then I learned I was trans and autistic

    • pflanzenregal@lemmy.world
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      1 month ago

      Yeah I’d rather bet that he is kinda emotionally disconnected from anything happening with her (and himself).

      So she probably never feels supported, tried to talk about, didn’t work, finally divorced him but loves him too much to actually go through with it.