Bro, I’d love to change with you. I tend to be the opposite, I fear I often come off as aggressive and rude when in fact I am only pissed off at a computer for beeping the wrong way all week.

You say you have some (good) friends, have you considered just asking that? “How do you perceive me, I worry I look <x>?”

Fair point, people are different.

Nice try, FBI :)

+1 for the onlookers. I have watched plenty of arguments myself, just trying to build an opinion. Humans work like that.

Isn’t that just the (American) definition of liberal? That the market works, if restricted and guided enough by the state, so it works in the right way?

I’ve just met more people. Friends coming out kind of forces you to re-evaluate the casual *phobia. I don’t think online can do it. You have to experience and learn yourself.

Sure, and money grows on trees

Add telegram, threema, another matrix client for that other server and WhatsApp for some old friends to it

Hey, don’t be mean to your sysadmin!

I call it the engineer disease. Good to know that other fields have it as well…