• RaptorBenn@lemmy.zip
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    10 hours ago

    I used to hate seeing thoughts and prayers crap, but as I’ve grown, I’ve become more tolerant, sometimes you see something and you cant do a thing directly to help and you just wanna put the reality of your feelings out into the universe, it’s a hope thing.

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    1 day ago

    Atheists: what are some good comforting words to use in place of religious/metaphysical crap like this or thoughts and prayers?

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      20 hours ago

      The most comforting thing you can generally offer someone is presence and acknowledgment in my experience as an atheist nurse. The whole point of platitudes being looked down on is that they’re generally seen as insincere.

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      21 hours ago

      If I were dying, or lost my job, or had a bereavement; I would find any one of these to be incredibly comforting:

      May the force be with you

      Live long and prosper

      Here’s looking at you kid

      My mama always said life was like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get

      You either die a hero or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain

      Cowabanga

      Apes together strong

      If you find yourself alone, riding in the green fields with the sun on your face, do not be troubled. For you are in Elysium, and you’re already dead.

      You have my sword, and my bow, and my axe.

      Why do we fall sir? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up.

      I live my life a quarter mile at a time.

      I’ll be back

      Which would be worse, to live a monster or to die a good man