• surph_ninja@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    If you mistook ‘don’t be creepy’ for ‘don’t approach women at all,’ then yeah. You’re probably in a mental place where you shouldn’t approach.

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      22 hours ago

      Given how a lot of women are, don’t be creepy does mean “don’t approach them at all. Unless I’m interested in you, which I won’t tell you because men have to make the first move”.

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        21 hours ago

        That wasn’t my experience at all when dating. Just treat them like a person. Be friends. If you get on ok, then make your move. They often beat me to it.

        If the cold open approach isn’t working, change strategies.

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        23 hours ago

        Dating is a social activity. I’m not sure how you do it without being able to perform socially, but there’s probably resources out there to learn from.

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          16 hours ago

          This comment said “newsflash not every animal gets to reproduce,” which equates autistic people with less than favorable social skills to animals who deserve to die without experiencing love.

          Mmmmhmm. Howbout you go fuck yourself Mr. “Deleted.”

          (Also side note, username checks out, but dating != reproducing necessarily and the person who posted that is a clinical moron.)