I think that is also a decision. In your ruling you punished yourself out of three options. That was viable then because the amount of money was small but if the money in question was millions of dollars it wouldn’t be feasible for the judge to pay out of pocket.

In overwhelming majority of practical cases you can’t look under every nook and cranny. You must use the gut feeling in some way or another.

For example you can only tell if someone is sane and a good fit for you in relationship after like a year of living together yes? But you don’t get to have some kind of trial year or something you must use your gut feeling to tell if someone seems okay.

It’s very important thing in society as else nothing could ever be done in a reasonable amount of time. It fails sometimes though but that doesn’t mean it should be rejected as we literally cannot function without approximations and first glance judgments

It must suck to be at the anomaly end of this social heuristics and I sympathise but otherwise social algorithm would be of exponential complexity. Way too much for a limited lifespan of 80 years and even shorter kids making and dating window.

We cannot replace the heuristics but we can strive to make them better by education and knowledge.

How is your stock market portfolio?

That’s why autism is so hard when people often use this kind of sense as their ultimate guidance, at least during first meeting.
However you can figure out more consciously how to spot certain people also those that have the neurodivergent feels about them and learn consciously that they aren’t a danger or some plague and what their needs and obstacles are and why they behave differently.

I have an impression though that not that many people are willing to do so or even know how many different people exist and their possible troubles that make them maybe look and behave a bit odd.
As always education I guess. People should just get to know various other people and then these problems will cease to be. Older people have vastly more accurate feelings and judgments or withhold them long enough.

Knowledge about people together with gut instinct works much better. Then you also know why you feel that way and can judge better if you should listen to it or not.

It must sound super stupid and like pure nonsense to asd ppl for example from what I gathered who fundamentally think differently about it altogether but people really do use this thing daily everywhere from business to college parties. It’s like dogs smelling one another and it does take some effort from everyone to have the right smell

I mean after all apparently people emit some kind of pheromones. Guys look at girls differently based on something as invisible as hormone levels. It’s not that strange that after many years of evolution we are super perceptive to social details

It’s like when you feel something bad about someone for example and can’t explain why because there is no reason and after a while it turns out they diddle kids

Or maybe you have to pick two options that are equally good or bad theoretically but you feel better about one of them

That moment when you have a feeling someone is angry or sad even though it would be hard to pinpoint how you know it

The thing is I don’t think it is all doom and gloom. I am not scared or afraid of the future whether I should be or not.

It’s like some kind of tension that is progressively stretching the reality until it restructures. It’s not yet red hot but it is easily felt.

The best way to learn something new but maybe not useful or true is to say an obviously wrong fact on an internet forum with a total confidence.

People will step over themselves to explain it like it is a supermarket opening on a Black Friday morning

It’s a never patched CVE-1980-1 in an internet nerd mind that causes a dump of the victim’s volatile memory

IMO if you are willing to go/risk going to jail for some time best reasons are either stealing millions of dollars or murder. Nothing else is quite worth it

I guess the situation truly worthy considering for me would be getting paid millions of dollars for killing someone really and I mean really insufferable. Then I would seriously think about it

You are free to leave.

sarcasm tags are for the weak willed, we don’t do such things even in the autism central online. What happens, happens

I have unironically read my comment 10 times already just to savor how perfectly and tastefully it is composed. Truly a masterpiece of some kind.

in my book far left are hexbears hence centrism is something like social democrats a la usa bernie

gotta hate politics and its muddy definitions but I unironically like to call myself centrist. Then I am surprised how controversial it is on the interwebs because apparently everyone has different definitions. They routinely make them up on the fly 🪰

For me centrism is a fine art 🎨 of staying far away from the madness of extremism 🤪. I love centrism. I huff centrism. I breathe centrism.
I fuck with centrism.

It is deeply based in the sense of superiority and moral high ground. As all politics but this is a fundamental part of centrism. Centrism is saying “You all suck” I am better than you and enables feeling of superiority over the biggest swath of Redditors internet activists 🤓 which is a lovely perk. It is a true essential trick of the ultimate hedonist. If politics were about sex, centrist would be someone jerking it off to the mirror.

Hmm okay gotcha. I would very much like to get into the adhd meds resell market that should exist somewhere there. Some kind of crypto payment and shipping to parcel lockers. It has to be a thing

Yes I know that existence of this market is the very thing probably responsible for various shortages but what can you do

And I happen to be in EU so like there’s no way someone is gonna check on the border anything so I could find someone from any of the EU countries.

The only question is how as I said kill me I can’t do such things.

I known someone who could go on vacation to some place and already knew how to get every drug known to humankind on the first day there

I wouldn’t know how to find a drug dealer even if my life depended on it lol haha

Thanks for the monitoring advice. Do they usually sell things impure with contaminants? Just fillers?

Don’t take me wrong. I just need to be skeptical of things I will need to take for quite a long time. I want to focus on safety and it just didn’t sound like something that is established or well researched

My ideal approach to safety is: Researched long term effects, many trials, tried substances with known recommendations -> Reputable supplier with documented ingredients to avoid impurities -> Legal stuff like minimizing private data exposure -> Pre treatment health check -> Health monitoring

Weed is making things so much worse for me. Anxiety is my only drive in life to do boring stuff. And when its levels go down, my level of productivity plummets to the point of nothing is getting done anymore.

The frick is that hippy stuff? sounds like some load of bollocks no offense

Cmon I am not gonna blast myself with some experimental early stages drug candidates. Reasonable level of risk. I meant more legal risks. Health risks would preferably be equal to that of an official treatment. No experiments on living bodies nah that’s for them lab rats.

I can handle explanations in court, make sweet eyes and go for a year of public service cleaning work but I don’t think I can handle explanations at emergency room